Being Considerate in your Intimacy

When you get married you have new responsibilities and one of them is making your partner feel loved comforted and good. now it's really important to let your partner know how much you love and care for them while you are making love to them. physical intimacy is very important in marriage. You have to learn to be able to satisfy each others needs. It is also a new thing for some people. Even if it isn't new or you are new to having intimate relationships with other people there is always room for improvement. communication is probably one of the most important aspects of this physical part marriage. However young and inexperienced people tend to think that sex and intimacy is pretty simple. According to therapists you would be surprised my how many people don't feel satisfied or safe or comforted during sex. Sex may be a great experience or activity for fun but it also has a great significance in bringing husband and wife together. if done right it's not only a recreational activity or an activity of procreation it can be a real bonding experience between the husband and wife. 

 

How can we make sex a real bonding and intimate exciting and fun and safe experience? the important thing is to explore with each other and have great communication because a lot of times we don't know how the other person is feeling unless we're talking to them and letting them know how we're feeling. You could even talk about maybe safe words that you can say to let the other person know that you're uncomfortable or that you'll feel good or that it hurts. There are many many different things we can do to make it so that we have better communication and that we're on the same page while having intimate moments. Now a lot of things we can do beforehand. We might describe what we're comfortable and okay with and what we're not conferrable and okay with. Now we can also do things while having sex that make each other feel better or feel comfortable complementing each other. 

 

It is also important to know that the female body and anatomy are very different in a male's body and anatomy. Females tend to have a longer stage of arousal whereas males can be very sexually aroused very quickly. Also males tend to finish a lot faster than women and so the difference there can make or one of the other feel subconscious about themselves. Also females and males mental spaces are very different. For women it is very common for them to need and want to feel safe before they engage in physical and intimate contact. Males on the other hand need more physical contact to feel safe and loved. It's important to know the differences between males and females anatomy so that you can be able to help satisfy each other's needs. It is important to explore this area of intimacy together with a lot of communication so that you both can learn about each other and what each other's needs are so that you can help satisfy each other's physical and mental needs. Sex is meant to be a bonding activity between husband and wife to help them grow together then the more intimately so that they can have a stronger bond and a stronger love for each other.

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